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Friend Drama (Is there any other kind?)

Hi everyone ! It has seriously been forever since I last blogged and I am so sorry for that. I honestly have no excuse besides the fact I just never did.  Lots of things have happened and I have been dying to post something related to it! A couple of days ago my friend and I, well my friend decided she no longer wanted to be "friends" anymore, it has been going on for a while, but I think it finally ended. I want this post to be about what to do when you are going through a similar situation, so lets get into it: My number one thing that I would do is to talk to them, I know this seems very obvious, but seriously you need to. When you are talking to them or even texting them make sure to think about your words wisely! If the first option fails, DO NOT TALK ABOUT THEM. Okay I have been in so many situations where I would have fall outs with my friends and I would need to rant to someone and after I ranted to the person they would turn around and tell the exact person I was...

Social Media & How it Affects Me

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I remember in the sixth grade I made my first social media account and it was Instagram. My posts were so silly and weird haha.  Looking back at that time it was so much simpler because I didn't care what anyone thought of what I posted, but today I analyze every picture I take or every tweet I make, just so that nobody thinks its weird or awkward.  I wanted to write about this because, quite frankly social media has taken over our lives. I just hope if you read this that you may think about the affects it has on you.  I honestly think that we have social media to get attention and what we really drive for is for someone to comment on our selfie saying that "You look so cute, *Heart Eyes Emojii*, but when social media first came out it was a way to connect to each other and talk to people you wouldn't normally see everyday.  Here lately I have really been missing my childhood when I really didn't care how many likes I got on instagram.  We have let our likes def...

Girl Drama

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Let us all be completely honest, being a girl is rough and what is even more rough is holding your tongue and not lashing out on a whim.  This past week as been difficult to an extent, you've guessed it petty girl drama .   One of my best friends of four years decided to yell at me in front of everyone in the school hall, over a simple question to which I had no answer. It was a ridiculous question, "Where am I supposed to go for fourth period?" this seems like a pretty normal question, but not to her she acted as if her life depended on the question.  Since I do not have her class fourth I didn't know what she was even talking about.  I responded with " I don't know where you are supposed to go, since I do not have that class." what made it worse was she asked me not a second time, but ten more times.  Sorry for the rant, but getting to the point is that girls like to exaggerate things and create drama for the fun of it.   Here are some tips from my e...